Nobody’s engine dies from one bad day.
It dies quietly, over months, for want of a litre of oil that cost almost nothing. Marriages go the same way — not in the shouting, in the small unsaid things.
This is not counselling and it is not a course. It is a ten-minute daily check, done out loud with your wife or your husband, for forty days.
What forty days actually looks like
One Refuel a day. You cannot skip ahead and you cannot binge it — the next day opens tomorrow. That is the point.
Communication, appreciation, unforgiveness, money, intimacy, in-laws, anger, trust.
Loneliness inside marriage, comparison, phones, sending money home, sex without bargaining, small lies.
Repair, temptation, respect in public, what our children will copy, saying the vows again, continuing.
Tarisai & Nyasha Mutasa
Nineteen years married, two of them bad. They have spent the last eleven sitting with couples in Harare and Bulawayo — in church halls, in living rooms, and twice in a car park at midnight.
“Almost nobody came to us with a crisis they could not have seen coming. They came with three years of not checking.”
Somebody in your house thinks something is worth ten minutes. That is all this is asking for. Not a retreat, not a weekend, not a stranger’s office.
There is no group. Nobody reads your answers. There is nothing to write down and nothing to hand in. You read a page, you ask each other one question, you go to bed.
Read Day 1 tonight. If it is not worth the ten minutes, you have lost ten minutes.
One price, then it is yours
Days 1–3 are free. No subscription that quietly renews.
All 40 Refuels, kept for good. Works out at about 75c a day.
Start the 40 daysSeven Refuels. Renews only if you choose to.
One Refuel — for the evening you need a particular one.
Paid with Ecocash, InnBucks or OneMoney. Content is read in the app — there is nothing to download, and nothing to leave lying around the house.